“Use three times as much of whatever you think is a lot. “You’re going to need lots of lube,” says Jill McDevitt, PhD, resident sexologist at CalExotics.
“This will help buffer them.” Lube, lube, lube! If you have longer nails and don’t want to cut them, “Put cotton balls under your nails and then wear a latex or nitrile glove,” says Finn. So make sure your hands are super-duper well manicured before going in! Hangnails, chipped nail polish, finger calluses, and jagged edges can all cause little abrasions and micro-tears in the vaginal skin that no one wants. Beyond that, here are some general tips to consider. Lube and communication are the two main pillars of successful fisting. “But how in sync we have to be in order for all of my fingers to get inside her is pretty damn intimate,” says Jack. Jack G., 42, who regularly fists his girlfriend of 3 years says, “Mostly, it’s just hot for me because it’s hot for her.” He adds, “Being able to feel someone’s body stretch to accommodate my girth is hot and validating.” “So for me, vaginally fisting lets me really feel myself inside of someone.” “I’m a guy without a biological penis,” says Cooper T., 24, a trans guy who regularly fists his partners.
“Personally, I think it’s more intimate than strap-on play, scissoring, or face-sitting.” For the fister “We both get off on the power of being the fister, and the submission of being the fistee,” says Natasha. Natasha B., 43, regularly fists and is fisted by her long-term girlfriend.
“But as my body opens up and my partner starts rocking their hand, it feels like a more intense version of G-spot stimulation.” “At first, it feels just like fullness, like a sensual stretching,” explains Tanya C., 33, adding that fisting is her favorite way to get off while bottoming.
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